The chasm between the ignorance of the ignorant n wisdom of the wise grows ever wider. How can the gap b bridged-food for thought.
Wherever u migrate to. even to another galaxy. Your ego with its pride will go with u. There's no easy solution. Whoever u might b.
Until the beloved doesn't inflict blow upon blow on prospective lover. U will remain just prospective. A lover has to b seared into shape.